oh my god, firstly, are you okay? 

secondly, yeah, i know that feeling. but, i’m not abused, i just get hit a lot by my mom. i have tons of bruises that are hidden/fading and scars from the bleeding of getting hit.

well, what i think is that you should tell a teacher or someone you really trust to help you. you should show that teacher/person you trust your bruises and then explain to them on what is going on. but, if that isn’t helpful, and you really really need help, the only choice is the police. but, you have to think about it carefully and make a good choice.

my choice was to talk to my mom about it since i don’t have a father. so, we sat down and had a girl-to-woman talk. after she heard my view of the story, she reduced the scolding and the physical beating.

i hope you get better and find a solution.

~Marse (shiningstyles)

Aw. I’m really sorry that, that is happening. Maybe you should just let her express herself for awhile. Maybe she’s experiencing something, or some problems. Try to ask her what is it about, or if she has a problem.

I hope you and your mom can make things work out, soon.

~ Linea ^_^

I’m sure your mum hasn’t forgotten you. I think she also has some things to fix. Maybe you’re just not her main priority because she has to focus on setting things up with your stepfather. Just remember she still loves you and cares for you even if she doesn’t show it. She’s your mother after all :)

Settling in with your step father and things. I’m sure you’ll get to know him soon and things will be okay between you guys ^^ All you need to do is take some time to understand each other and things will settle down soon.

Wish you the best :) Life gets better :) Don’t worry :D Stay beautiful. x

Hope this helps~

Noel (innocent-lovee)

How about you try to convince your mum?

Tell her that you want to go over. But then you will call her every hour or so until you go to bed so she won’t worry that much.

If you really want to go. You should try to make a win-win situation. That means that you get to go, but your mum will also benefit from it.

Honestly, I wouldn’t sneak out because then I’m pretty sure your parents would notice. How about try telling your mum that you will hang out with them but be home before 12am. But you won’t sleep over at their house. It seems to be a fair deal.

Hope this helps :)

Noel (sweetlies-bittersecrets)

it’s perfectly normal to feel like this! Don’t worry. It seems like you just want both your parents to be happy which is a good thing. Maybe you’re scared for your parents to be angry and unhappy.

 - Alison  (forever-beyond)