Even if you guys are close, and now you are dating, but one week into a relationship and starting to have sex is very intense. Plus, you are 14, and I am too. I wouldn’t think about sex just yet. Try building a stronger relationship, and then getting into sex. Also, this could also lead to an awkward sex (friends with benefits) relationship. I wouldn’t go too far in just one week. Really think about it, isn’t 14 a bit young to lose your virginity? What about your reputation? You decide dear, it’s your decision :)

-Estella (fallinginyourlove)

Do what you think is right dear :) Chase after the guy of your dreams. You could always tell your family friends that you like him, but as a buddy kind of situation. You’ll still see each other right? So you guys can still be friends! For a guy, a girl saying “Let’s just be friends” could hurt, but if you date a guy that you don’t like anymore than just a friend, wouldn’t that hurt you too? I don’t know. Do what seems right. You could always stay in touch with him and date your Prince Charming. 

I would just tell him: We should just be friends, because it’ll be awkward when we break up. Because if you actually think of it, you are actually closer to your family friends than a guy you like. And losing a good, close, family friend could hurt more than breaking up with your dream guy :)

It’s up to you my dear! I’ll support whatever you decide to do!

-Estella (fallinginyourlove)

well, as usual, you should never guys come in front of your friendship. friendship is more important than guys or romance. 

if you really like him, then, you should talk about it with her. if she is your good friend, she would listen to you, and would try to work things out with you.

if she chooses the guy over you, then, don’t even bother being friends with someone who can’t even listen to their own best friend. plus, we people have a voice. we can judge and say anything we want. 

hope this will help! :)

Marse (shiningstyles)

:( I really think you should talk to him! Ask him why he’s ignoring you. If you really don’t have the guts (like me) I would just give him the silent treatment. I don’t think it’s the best way, but if he really cared he would come back right? But I really suggest you to talk to him. Ask him why he’s not replying. Don’t let a friend disappear in your life, you’ll really regret it. It kind of happened to me :/ Try encountering him, maybe something’s going on. You’ll never know until you ask ;) wish you the best!!
-Estella (fallinginyourlove)

Hello my love. First and foremost, I would like to tell you that I feel the same way. Hmmm. IGNORE Him. IGNORE them. Focus with your life. Haha, or maybe he just wants you to be jealous or whaaat. Haha! :)) Just don’t mind them. Hope this helped a little.

* sorry for a stupid feedback. i’m not in the mood -__- really sorry

- linea

Hello anon! First of all, I really think you are PRETTY. I think that guy was just playing some kind of joke with you. Or someone ordered him to do that. I’m really glad you trusted your feelings. I believe you should forget whatever happened. xoxo

- Linea

Hi there anon. 

I think you should explain to him that you’re leaving soon and you know why it didn’t work last time. Spending money… well I guess all guys try to spend money to impress you I suppose. You should figure out a way to repay him, like take him out or treat him to something fun :)

If you like another guy, I think you would be happier dumping him and you should confess your feelings to him.

-Noel (innocent-lovee)

Hi there anon(:

First of all: Was he a good friend or just a friend? 

I think you should go up to him and talk to him about it. Ask him why he isn’t talking to you or why he ignores you. Tell him how you feel about everything. Don’t lie. It just makes it worse. If he was your true friend and you’d rather keep the friendship then tell him that. 

If you’re not brave enough to confront him just incase he’ll hurt you. You could either write a note and pass it to him, or get a friend to talk to him. Maybe send an email. 

I think what he’s trying to do is come to terms with the news he’s found out and I think it might take a little time. But it should be worth it in the end.

Hope this helps. Wish you the best.

~Noel (innocent-lovee)

Hey there. It’s kind of obvious that he really likes you:) Maybe when he starts getting over-protective - like fighting with someone about a small thing they did to you, just go like “Hold up, it’s alright, it was only a joke. Chillax.” Maybe he’ll understand if you keep on doing this when he’s being a little too protective of you?

Hope this helps, if you need any more advice, feel free to ask!

 - Alison (forever-beyond)

Well, your friend asked first right? It wouldn’t be great if your crush cheated on your friend with you, and it would be hard to replace him, so maybe you could just wait :) Did your crush say that he liked your friend? If he did, maybe you could wait for them to break up, and then you could tell him! But you have to be patient. Don’t let a boy come between your friendship though :)
If he didn’t say that he liked your friend back, just tell your crush you like him! Don’t be sad okay ;) There’s always another price charming out there waiting for you! Don’t the on your friend either :*
Wish you the very best :)
~Estella (fallinginyourlove)